wife hardens heart-5

[planet]

I get what you mean.

I'm not staying with the kids anymore and it's tough trying to discipline my kids when i receive very little or no support from W and MIL.

They have a very different view on discipline. MIL kept on saying they'll grow out of it. Hmm...Not being a d**k here but one has to see how her kids turn out to know she's got it wrong.

W won't see me as weak willed but as a crazy a** forceful d**k if i force things my way. Not that it matters now.

D4 is really smart. She KNOWS she is controlling the situation when W or MIL is around. She cries out for her mom when W is not around and i believe that's how she wants attention. Right now D4 is ignoring me.
I'm trying very hard to figure out the best way to deal with D4.