I hope your h doesn't have what I had!! I think he is confused. But so was I, I must have said I want a d for 2 years before I actually did leave. Since we have been d for 3 years, I think he is past he anger and slowly I am gaining back his trust. We both took eachother for granted too, I think every couple does that once in a while--life is always so busy! Last Feb, I told him I wanted to go to C and we had a big fight that he forgives me, but doesn't trust me. Now in Jan, he told me he wants to go to c. Its like I am still married, I am always over his house, we all go to church on Sundays as a family. You need to build trust with actions. I take it that your OW and OM are out of the picture. I try not to bring anything up about trust. On the ML business, well, if he isn't seeing anyone else, why not. Have you guys ever sat down and had a heart ot heart as to why both of you had A?
