Thanks MrBond. I guess I know the answers to my questions, I'm just afraid to live with those answers. Detachment has been my biggest problem. It's so hard just to let go of someone you love when they are confused and lost. It's do hard to let go of the life that we have with our children. We are together constantly, and that makes my detachment difficult. I gotta just be better at this and find peace with whatever happens.

I know it's not true, but detaching feels like abandonment. Like I'm abandoning her in a time if crisis, like I'm abandoning the cause. I know better, but it's so hard. I need to read the resources again and back through DB and DR do that I can stay the course.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

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