So, at this point, I'd rather just rip off the bandaid since she has made her intent so clear. Let's get it done as soon as possible. We can divide the joint accounts on our own, and have it done in two weeks.
Why would she continue to want her check to go into our joint account? Also, she wants each to keep paying our own expenses on vehicles? Ridiculous, the car she has is in my name and I'm paying the loan.
If she wants to break away so quickly, let's let her see what that will mean for her financially. I'm not trying to be bitter, just she has unrealistic expectations of having her cake and eating it and having access to our credit (which is good because of my efforts) and access to our joint accounts. Time to cut the cord.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14