ITS HAPPENING AND NOW I'M SCARED!!!!!

[mylittlehalo]

Anita, how are you? Hope things are getting better every day.
You said something about your A that struck home with me. You said your XH worked a lot and not much physical contact. OM listened and was affectionate. I understand this all too well. My XH was working 90+ hours a week (1 job), I was working 80+ hours a week (two jobs)and we forgot about eachothers needs and feelings. My OM came to see me daily at my 2nd job, brought little thoughtful gifts, gave me lots of attention, and was easy to talk to. What I thought was a friendship was actually an EA. Soon that EA turned into an A. Before I knew it I was wrapped up in this double life. You know the funny thing about this is that I thought the grass was greener on the other side. Looking back I think to my self "Halo, what were you thinking... you were an idiot to let someone come in between the sacred vows you made"
One day I was told that men cheat for sex and women cheat for affection. I remember this as I continue to Db.
Dont allow feelings to be bottled up, this is self torture, and never neglect the things you care about.
I dont know how you feel about your situation, and have not heard any more about the OM in your life but I hope you being the best you you can be.
Prayers and hugs to you.