Originally Posted By: Notlikingthis
H brought up her inability to see things in any other way than black and white

Did you suggest him to lend her his rose colored glasses to keep in her purse in case she runs into OW again?
Sorry, I didn’t mean to be insensitive. It is just incomprehensible to me to even imagine what is going on in his head. Wave at you while OW is in his truck… OW waves to you… Dressed up like a hooker… Him saying that they were not “doing anything”… HELLO! They are doing everything to hurt you and your daughter.

I agree with kml, he needs to face the consequences of his decisions. What is it to him, some kind of experiment? “Oh, I know this thing with OW might not work out and I still want the connection with my W and kids, but I just want to play a little bit, but I'm not doing anything inappropriate.” Sorry, I must be as angry as you are. I don’t even know how I would behave in this situation, in an adult kind of way, you know. I hope you have all the patience and wisdom of DB when he comes to talk. I wish you luck.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state