I hope you feel better.I enjoyed taling to Om as well. My husband and I just got wrapped up in life and stop taking care of each others needs. We took each other for granted. I never thought he would leave and stay away 3mos. We don't don't have relationship talks yet. We are grtting along fine for the most part. When I got home today he was lying on the couch wrapped up in a blanket. I made him some tea. He s;ept for a couple of hours and then took S10 to B-Ball practice. His behavior doesn't seem to be that of a man that wants a D. He hasn't bought it up in 3wks. I think he is confused . HOw are you and your ex getting along? Did he say that he's gonna hve trust issues. Does he still bring it up? I pray that all goes well with you.