Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive

The more you chase the faster they run.
You're moving in the wrong direction. You need to make her feel like she is losing YOU.



It's really hard to make someone feel like they are losing you who wants to divorce you in the first place. I'd be open to suggestions on how to accomplish this without pursuing her.

I'm seriously contemplating just giving her the divorce she wants instead of delaying. If that's what it takes to "open the cage" maybe it's for the best.

Each day I'm by myself, it feels like she's gone already, so it wouldn't be too much different.


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14