So sorry to read your story. I was also on the HD side of an SSM and I know it is terrible and can be soul-crushing. Maybe post on the SSM forum if you feel that is at the root of your current issues?
When you say your mother and father massively overcompensate, what does that mean?
What does H have to say? How does he explain his withdrawal?
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
