Hi Anitasues, I am Nitaf107. I amsoory to take over your thread but you story is a little similar to mine. My H had an A about 2yrs aga. I never said anything.I kept all of my feelings burried deep. I was in alot of pain. Summer 03, I felt fed up and had an EA from about aug-oct. My husband expected something. he was never sure and I never admitted it. We have been seprated 3mos. I suspect that he is having an EA.He is at his moms house. He will not admit to anything so I have to take his word. I am really confused n\by his bevaior. When he 1st left he said that we could never be intimate againg because it makes him sick to his stomach. Here lately we have been intimate about 2xs a week.He says he will never be able to trust me again and about 3wks ago mentioned the bid D. I ahven't heard anything else and we continue to be intimate. Lately he has been reffering to me as honey and baby. We have always told each other ILY but I stopped because I was DBing and he started it back up. We are having some robberies and the area and he said if anyone looks supicious or bothers you call me and I said you would protect me? he said I would kill someone over you!! I don't ask anymore questions about possible EA but 1 day when we were about to ML he said honey I have no one else to take care of me. Why did he want to reassue me all of a sudden. Earlier that day is when he mentioned the big D. Thatis why I am confused D by day ML @ nite. Is he confused also? What should i do. Should i stop Ml with him. I just love him and want him home. I never saw this coming. Any advice..please. Anitasues I would really repect your opinion because I was sorta a WAW. Just a short period of time and H got frustrated. He said they we didn;t have enuff ML inour marriage. theres more now than then ....HELP
