NTX - he was in pajama pants and flip flops with a coat on, but quite honestly, W has described him as a bit of a slob, so he may just be one of those people that goes to Walmart like that. Based on what some mutual friends have described of him, that rings true to me. I really don't know or care and am not going to spend any more time thinking about him. W knows the rule about him, and that's all I care about.

Yeah, I sacked up! I like that; it's going in my signature! smile I think you finally hit a point where you quit being scared you'll "mess up your chances", and I hit that like a freight train. What's cool is that I felt no need to threaten or manipulate, or give an ultimatum, or scare her - I simply felt like "Here's what I will or won't tolerate - now, go do what you want."

And honestly, I am enjoying my time a lot. I think I only post the crazy interactions on here, but 90% of the time I am doing fun stuff with kids, hanging with friends, enjoying craft brews. I'm about to start singing on our church worship team again, and am back to my normal work out schedule starting tomorrow. Looking forward to the holidays, and possibly a trip to Florida!

P.S. A restraining order is a bit of a joke, at least in Ohio. You can get a $100 fine for contempt, but its not the same as what we call a civil protection order which carries jail time and several thousands in fines. Regardless, not messing around with it anymore or being threatened by it.