Have you ever played poker, WH? Have you seen how you know you have a losing hand, but you bluff to some degree anyway because you sense the opponent can't stand up to it?
When it comes time to show your cards, you find out that the other person isn't larger than life. Rather they are a pathetic and scared little child in most cases. Children that were trying to get their way by bullying and bluffing.
It really can be over that fast. It really can be all a big bullying bluff. It surprisingly can be.
You'll be surprised by some of the things that happen in the future as well; things he led you to believe that aren't, well, factual. (shocker, right?)
In time, you may stop looking because it's disgusting instead of the currently painful.
Glad things are changing though. I see that as a great thing for you and the kids. Your son getting involved is not a sign of a good thing.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
