I kind of feel bad for my last post. I still think fixing things is always the best path. But based on what the kid said and what happened Sunday morning, I don't think your W is no where near the place she needs to be to fix things.

Usually the advice on here is to not assume the worse, but those to me are two important clues.

Just work on yourself and REALLY stay away this time and see what happens the next month or so.

If she gets pushy with the split again later, I'd seriously consider the dissolution depending on how you feel at that time. Based on what I've read, prior to Sunday you weren't ready for it. Take some time and figure out what Jon really wants.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012