HWA, good advice here. I’ve been in the same boat, very little communication with H (though increased recently), and mostly about business. So, I tend to over-think about possible motives as well.
Wonka, your advice applies to my sitch perfectly. Curios what your take would be on the recent developments.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state