4 is enough to do damage... And while I understand your negative feelings towards your W right now, I would think there would be more concern about your D and her well-being.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.