hi alaksa--only only thing I don't have to remind him when were married and stilll don't is money--everything else goes out the window. When married I paid the bills, but he would always check the ATM balace and if we were missing $10, he would question me--I was working too and got frustrated so he took over. But other day to day things such as washing--forget it. My daugher is always borrowing my clothes and when I ask why it's because dad hasn't done laundry. On Sat nights I will come to get d and clothes are everywhere and he complains. I told him I used to do wash on wed and sat and it helped me to do it twice a week, but he still hasn't taken my advice or done anything different.
