H just called again. Says he's been thinking about this since he say her yesterday and can't get it out of his mind. I told him I understood why and left him talk. He repeated that he didn't want to dump this on me but he just doesn't know what to do. Told him that I too have been thinking about it. He said at this point we need to keep communications between us open. Yep, that's right but I'm still not going to tell him what I think.
I will be seeing my d in a few hours and pray that I will know what to say. H brought up her inability to see things in any other way than black and white and repeated what her counselor has told us many times using the needle on a record that gets stuck in a grove. She can only get so far in her thought process then skips back to the beginning. It must be so frustrating for her.
How can he not think of anyone other than himself here! I want to knock him upside the head with a 2X4 reinforced with lead.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama