Mind you, this is a woman that was crazy about that said she could not bare the thought of living without me a month prior when I was wayward. All of the sudden she no longer loved me a month later when the OM came in the picture. I believe I was the main cause of this. Once I discovered her meeting this OM, she said she would even change her number. We were intimate and she was willing to work on the marriage, but my guess is that she talked to him and somehow convinced her to give him a chance or to at least not cut all ties until she was sure what she wanted. He probably staid calm and collected while I became insecure and them I started begging and pleading and that's when she did the 180 and the tables turned. for 4 months she started lying and probably what started more as an EA for her became a PA. The man in me wants to never take her back even if she does, but I think about our D and since I went wayward first I feel compelled, but i never went as far as she did in allowing the humiliation and taking the OW' side. I went to jail for crying out loud and she did nothing to stop it!
