I have had to get a lawyer to make sure these misdemeanor charges are dropped as I have a career to worry about. The judge declined the restraining order, but I am devastated because I would never had thought she would turn her back on me for a stranger. Allow this man to use his power to throw me in jail! The father of her child and the man she so claimed to love! It's been a month now and at first she was being very cold when ever she communicated about me seeing my D, but since I have had her sister call me twice and her mother once. The theme is, that they feel she made a mistake, that this man somehow brainwashed her and that she still would like to spend time as a family for out D sake and have me go on skype etc when I travel to see my D. The problem is that I really am doing NC, not because I'm using it as a tactic, but because I feel humiliated, disappointed and have no desire to talk to her, although I do know I love her dearly. This whole charade will cost me about 10k in lawyers including the D lawyer. What to do? I know now she acted like an adict and made some poor choices that now she might be regreting. I know she is still seeing this man and has not asked for forgiveness or to come back, but as usual this won't end well as this relationship started with lies and deceit. She lied to everyone. Friends, family, me, everyone. Not only that. This OM cheated on his Ex-W with a married woman and also was abusive to his Ex both verbally and physically.
