I don't have a problem with H playing video games with our son or using it as incentive to spend time with him - my H is living in the spare room of an older couple he knows through work. What I do have a problem with is H using video games as incentive for S13 meet OW and her kid, especially when we have an agreement, albeit verbal, that there will be no bribery by either of us to influence our son's decision in that respect.
H spent a lot of his time when he lived here playing video games so it's what we're all used to. It's a change for him to actually include our son when playing the games - he used to play FB games on his own whereas now he'll take it in turns playing combat games with our son and will give him tips when he's playing. It's actually nice to see him spending that time with our son for a change.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks