But this is what makes it worst and has me questioning whether or not I want this woman back. I called my aunt who was BF with my wife until this day. She also works for law enforcement. When I told her what happened she said I needed to call 911 because this man had laid his hands on me and this was wrong. I did and after hours of back and forth with the police I ended up arrested. How? Well of course I called a cop on a cop and these were his buddies. My W sided with him and even put a restraining order against me. I spent 16 hours in jail for texting "stalking" him. LOL She said she never saw him push me, but of course not. She was in the house still. He was very aggressive and I was calm and collected. This shattered my world and I cried like a baby as he walked back to the house as he was the man of the house. My D 4 years old sleeping in there and all along she had been lying about this OM being around.