I was over 100 posts on #2 so time for another thread. Not sure how to post up link to #2 if someone could help me out. Anyways, last post from #2 for those of you that have been helping me out.
Well I'm back at my place. Night started off with a weird buzz kill. We were sitting there and W asked me to make her a promise. I said ok. She says that she has been really enjoying spending time with me lately, but wants me to promise that if we don't get back together I won't make things ugly. Said that if she can't find her way through her confusion she wants things to be good between us. Of course I told her that I would never want things to get ugly between us. How does she go from wanting me to look for houses to a comment like that?
Rest of the time we sat on seperate sides of the couch watching the game. No physical contact at all. She did have me go in the bathroom with her three times when she had to pee haha? W had like 5 beers and still no attempt for physical contact, so it must not be on her mind at all. I'm confused by this as two nights ago she huged me and kissed me on the cheek. We called it early because her team was getting killed and I have to get up early. Night ended by her hugging me and saying she would call tomorrow. I'm a bit upset with how the night went, not at all what I was expecting and hoping for. She still does not wear her ring and I do. I wonder if I should just take mine off next time I'm around her? _________________________
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
Oh yea, W also said that we are talking and having fun maybe even more so than when we first started dating. I'll take this as a positive for sure, but this comment came directly before the whole if she cant get thru her confusion and back to me will I play nice remark.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
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W calls me earlier informing me that she was in the emergency room at 1 a.m. last night. She fell face first into a coffee table while playing with my D. She sent me a pic and it looks pretty bad. Cut below her eye that required 8 stitches, cut on nose and forehead as well. Her eye is all swollen and black and blue. It kinda hurts that she did not call me last night to let me know. She said her mom is mad at her because she thinks its because she was drinking. She said she wasent, but I know she had 4 or 5 drinks around me last night. I also know she drinks almost everyday now since we got separated. I dont know how to feel about this. I'm upset for her and wish I could have helped somehow last night. The saga continues I guess.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
I know she is doing it to cover the pain and confusion of this whole situation. I'm not saying that makes it ok, W never was a big drinker. Maybe just a glass of wine at night nothing more.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
W sent me another picture of the damage to her face. Looks alot worse today as would be expected. I feel really bad that she is all messed up like that. Told her she can be a boxer for halloween haha.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
That's terrible what happened to your W. I couldn't help but wonder if that was the real story about falling into a coffee table. And was she that drunk around your young D while taking care of her? That is not good. What if she fell and blacked out with D? What if D had an emergency, could W drive? I didn't know the whole story just asking some concerning questions if they apply.
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I understand your concern. Like I said she had I believe it was 4 beers here with me, not enough to do much really. I dont know if she had more when she got home. Should solve any OM possibilities for awhile anyways haha. Did I actually type that
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
