My H's parents called me last night and we spoke for 3.5 hours. They told me that all along they've been thinking that he'd been having an affair with the text girl mentioned in my original post. They said that his behaviour just doesn't match up with anything else in their eyes. In my mind, I'm keeping the doors to all avenues open because I don't know what the real truth is. I told them he could simply be having a crisis, or he could be having an affair but either way there's not much I can do to change it. He told them that when he looks in my eyes, the anger he has for me shows up. He is just SO ANGRY at everything. They also told me that when he is guilty of something, he tends to get angry at the person who called him out instead of feeling ashamed or saying he's sorry. When they asked him about why he didn't seem to show any empathy towards me when I injured my foot, was dealing with our sick cats and my grandma passed, all he had to say to that was that it wasn't his problem. So I don't know. I just don't know what I should do really. I haven't seen him face to face since August.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
