in June I found out she met a man, once that happened I went crazy and did everything wrong. I looked at the list of things not to do and did pretty much everything that was said not to. Now the tables turned and she did everything I did once. She turned to be the cheater. Lied for 4 months stating that the man was no longer in the picture and led about everything. We live in separate apts now. I have been noticing very strange behaviors, no sex and very moody when I try discussing our reconciliation. She would just ask for the typical space and time to think, but the s hit the fas on Sept. 16th. After having a great afternoon in the movies as a family with our daughter I went home as I have been trying to give her time and space. She asked the unusual question she has been asking lately "when do I leave for work travel and where too?" That made me suspicious so I went home, but after a few hours I decided to go back to her apartment. She had texted me a good night and thank you for all I had done.