Hi Sayitaintso - Thanks for stopping by my thread and for commenting. I definitely need to work more on detaching. I feel like a completely different person than I was a few months ago. I am no where close to being detached, but slowly getting there.

I have been focusing the majority of my attention on GAL - joined a new yoga class, started running, joined two new meet up groups (have gone to three events in the past couple weeks), planned weekend events w and w/o kids for the next two months. I had previously waited on my H to decide what to do each weekend before the S. No more waiting for me.

Thanks for the advice. It is nice to have a reminder that I need to stay focused on myself and forget about H's actions.