Yeah, are right rottz. I am organized and basically took care of all the bills and the house. Its like you do have to pin it on their shirts!! But then I get stuck, like I can't read your mind all the time" or why don't you remind me. then when I do I'm a nag!! and then I feel bad when he doesn't remember and that maybe I didn't communicate enough--damed if you do, damed if you don't I guess. Maybe I'll just tell him to look at the list on the tapes. and consider that my part of reminding.
