BF, I sincerely hope something is changing for him. It is just so hard because we want it to be so much faster. But this is work, and marriage is work, every day, that's what I have forgotten the past 6 years. Forgot to work at it. It helps me to know that other people can see a change when it seems so minimal to me, probably because I am wrapped up in it. I appreciate you saying so.

Hi 3! Isn't that funny how terror strikes their little confused hearts? What your H said made me laugh too. Hopefully they can see WE are doing the RIGHT THING, and this will have SOME impact on them. Just keep looking for those glimmers!


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.