Of course, he wanted to know where you went. It is funny how it works. They want to do their own things when they want to do them, but they get worried if you do the same.
You must be doing something right. The dynamic of your interaction with H has changed. Maybe he is learning something too. Keep it up!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state