Hi 3, it really does sound like he is softening to you. You have done well in your efforts to soften the environment.

Look for the glimmers, that's what I look for too. It's hard to give when to someone when they are not giving back, but to get love you must give love, not expect it. I really think you are doing well! Keep up the good vibes.

Thinking about you today, Pud


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.