Gee whiz Jon. what the heck, your sitch is so bizarre! I'm sure it feels that way too.

I think you need to retreat BIG TIME. She was feeling comfortable with you and it scared her, so she did the opposite.

Retreeeeeeeeat! Retreeeeeeeeeeeat!

Sorry this is so messy for you. As JBM said, Ugh.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.