Bea,

I appreciate your thoughts. I could buy him out of the car and hold on to it until our older d finishes school. The two of them have had many go-arounds about her driving the car when she comes home for holidays. She teases him that he bought the car for her and is just taking care of it until she comes home.

He will see whatever I do as a way to control him. They want to be in control of everything and as you said when they don't get their own way they, react in a very negative way. I know what his limits are and this will be pushing it no matter how I respond.

These eggshells are starting to hurt. I have to put my shoes back on and keep going.


Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama