You're lucky that your H is still willing to do jobs for you. My H will only do jobs for me if he gets something out of this, such as the sale of the house.
That's the only reason that my son likes going to his dad's as well, he gets to play games all the time and eat junk food. H rented out a DVD for him as well, but my son wants H to buy it for him, lol. Well H did promise he'd buy it for his birthday.
I'm pleased that your son has decided that he doesn't want to meet the OW and his son. My son didn't have a choice the first time round as he was only seven. He came back home talking about the OW and when I questioned this with H, he said oh he's probably just remembering the time when we all went out together. I knew he was lying and I found out later on that he was!


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!