I wish you were in a more positive predicament but I think your only option right now is just a high degree of patience if you want to keep up the possibility of things working out.
I'm dealing with patience frustration weekly. Just not much contact and having to finalize some things on my end. It. Is. HARD!
Knowing that the holidays are coming up very soon is the next hurdle to overcome with all the emotions of sadness and loneliness, etc.
Do not take it for granted that you are having regular interactions with each other and that the hostility is at a minimum. I think you have to keep reminding yourself that if you want it to work, there will be lulls and down periods.
I'm having to solely focus on myself and that gets hard because you put pressure due to time constraints of the separation period and trying to get things finalized on some stuff.
Keep the faith...keep a positive attitude, you're doing good.
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."
