Quote: I taped our counseling appts to the cover of the tapes
Anita, not sure what tapes you talking about, but the tapes that made the light bulb go off for me is the MARS/VENUS SERIES, the trick her is to listen to them together and in a quiet location. Have D somewhere else. Play the tapes for 15 mins then talk about it. The key here is the tapes will create lots of convo's, which is how this stuff is fixed.