Yes, the affair with the OW has ended. Back in September when wife first stated she wanted the divorce, I had a huge meltdown. After a couple days, I contacted OW and we talked. Told her how much I loved W and that I had to end contact with her (OW). OW understood and wished me the best. W has no assurances right now. In her mind, she doesn't feel she can believe what I say or that she can trust me (and I completely understand this). She is aware I am still in my own IC. I have communicated to W that affair has ended. I was over at the house on Saturday and she did not hand me the divorce papers or say anything about it. Trying not to be too hopeful.
