I still wonder about a few things. He seems to be quite worried about this whole process of moving forward. What I take from it is that he is worried that we will move too quickly and end up where back where we started with the same problems.

His counselor is telling him not to rush things, and not to make quick/rash decisions. Something tells me he wants to move back but is holding off due to what his counselor is telling him. I told him it is probably best that we take our time and do the counseling and just ease into things by him slowly moving back.

He tells me he is constantly thinking/worrying about things that are going on with us. He is still at his brother's apartment. He has been trouble sleeping because he is worrying about things. Also, he has a lot more time to think about everything when he is over there, because he is alone and not much is going on. It makes me wonder if he is worried about making the right decision. Hopefully the better things are between us the less worries and doubts he will have. My DB coach told me to just re-enforce positively with him that we can be fixed.

I am a little confused by all of this. Am I doing the right things?

-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.