BTW, does she really have a restraining order? If so then that's a big game changer. I would absolutely stay the heck away. She will play that card to her advantage when she needs to and you may end up in jail eventually.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012