Jon Jon Jon. I won't get our my 2x4 since you got hit with a telephone pole. What the kid said and your Sunday sitch should be enough motivation for you to stay the efff way.

You really do need to take a step back and assess where you are at. The finding the new church was obviously a lie to keep your suspicions down when she didn't show up at your church.

She is lying to you big time. Her actions with the OM are now affecting the children and confusing them.

Is a person capable of all of this someone you want to be with?

They say don't react to emotion and think things through. I'd spend the next few days assessing where you are. Frankly if it were me, I would strongly consider signing the disillusion. Just my two cents.

But for Pete's sake, do not play house with her anymore. It backfires on you every time.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012