ITS HAPPENING AND NOW I'M SCARED!!!!!

[mylittlehalo]

Anitasues,I am starting to understand your reasons for getting back together. IMO It is the right thing to do. I read the message you posted to Roz and I understand how you feel about being the one for so long to talk about the R and Counseling. I too, like many many others here, did this for a long time. Your situation shows how doing a 180 definatly changes things. Things are looking up!
So this is the first time you have been on your own? Wow what a transition. I do not have kids of my own but I do have single parent friends that agree dating is hard when you are a single parent. I think dating is hard just being a single woman. I forgot how difficult men can be. lol
I was not trying to question your reasons for wanting to take back your M, I just wanted to understand more about the history of your R. You and your H have so much history together. This is a great thing!!!
IMO- I would not bring up the tapes or your reading the books. From what you have said here he responds better when he thinks its his ideas. Let him be the one to come to you about the tapes. Be there to discuss them when he wants to. I know this is going to be hard. Shoot everything we are dealing with now is hard!
So have you found a C ya'll both agree on? Are ya'll going as a couple and separate, or just as a couple? You had said that you are going to a C by yourself. How is that going?
XOXO,
Halo