Stick to your guns, TTD. And good job on actually hanging up on him, not just saying you would.

You are right that you shouldn't bad mouth your H to your parents, or friends either, as it could come back to haunt you if you do get back together. It's not always easy though.

Your health is definitely more important that anything. You take care of that first!

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks