halo, among the reasons I told roz, ex also said that its the right thing to do, we made a commitment to God. We dated for 8 years, both of us were not allowed to date until we were 18. We were both eachothers first boy/girlfriend and first kiss and sexual experience. We got a chance to live away from home to go to college, I stayed and went to college in town. This is the first time I have ever been on my own. We were together for 8 years and everyone was getting married (friends) and we were like we both want the same things, both were Catholic and wanted kids, so we got married. I think I am more confused then angry rigth now. It would be healthy for our d for us to get back together. Its I think extremly hard to date when you have a child. So why can't the parents of this child work things out. Step parents--its just not the same as the orginal family, if you know what I mean.