wife hardens heart-5

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Take for example the conversation I tried to have with W last Saturday. I want to have my kids to myself without W and OM in the house. I don't want to be there if OM is there so I planned to take my kids out but D4 wouldn't want to go. As frustrating as this is, my time is my time, I wouldn't want to share it.

I told W I don't want this to happen again the next day.

She just got upset. Adding irrelevant things like she's not to blame if D4 doesn't want to join me. That I get to say what time I want to see my girls. That she can't do anything but wait for me to turn up. Again, I'm selfish for some reason. Just lots of guilt trips and blaming. Nothing makes sense. She just argues. That's her process.

I mean she could have just said ok. She's full on argumentative mode after BD. There are glimpses of such attitude in the past too but nothing like right now.