Could be, however the last two were: his email quotes w/ validation or asking to hear more
And the last one was actually VERY brief for me! lol
I will definitely concur with the moving around the page or focusing on words, ESPECIALLY in the beginning. I could see he would perseverate on a phrase or word, then take great offense or think the worst.
Barely does that anymore, we agreed to ask before jumping to conclusions.
He has said in the past and I concurred with him, he likes writing to me , he found it easier and more cathartic.
I am the same way. We both agreed we could read and re-read what we wrote, and edit our thoughts.
We both choose what we say v e r y carefully.
I'm not prepared to do anymore at present.
Got things off my shrinking chest, the sun will be out today! I'm going outside, to get as much D and mood lifting as possible.
We really aren't anywhere worse than we were. In fact, we are actually better than when the BD'd.
He is not resentful or short towards me. He is actually very kind and loving.
I believe he is trying to figure out the sex thing, 'cause it is really puzzling him. If he didn't care, why bother?
The admitting that I looked great, and then the immediate...but I'm not sexually attracted was interesting. I'm wondering if it is true or he's covering something.
He peeks at my body a lot...you know what I mean, the eyes moving up and down over your body when he doesn't think you are looking?
Other men do this too, but I could care less about them.
I wish a guy would jump in here and give me their perspective...I know you guys are reading, it isn't just us gals on the board...
My 180's should be about money.
Selling stuff, getting rid of stuff, looking for more employment The cable he has set up , I've always thought was too much! That can be downsized considerably And the storage facility has to be gotten rid of, that's another thing that I thought was just too much!
I need to tell my oldest daughter to stop looking to us/dad as a security net.
How do I tell her this ? She is 26 and this cheap car he bought, was still money we don't have. I KNOW it makes him feel good to give it to her, but it also makes her really dependent on him. That is still stress.
My other daughter is working and going to school full time, plus the treasurer of a sorority.
I should start working on the beds, and then think of what to do with the crap in the storage unit.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
