roz-for the past three years, I have always been the one who started to converstations about going to counseling/trying to get back together. Then I dropped it and he made the suggestion to get back together. Well, he put it, we spend so much time together, I still love you, your are a good person and a wonderful mother. Our daughter is not 18 yet and still needs you. I could date but I don't want too. I took all this as 1. since daughter isn't an adult yet, lets play family or hey dating is a pain when you have a child, my schedule is so busy, we spend all our time together so lets get back together. When I suggested we get back together, I actually never once mentioned our d, I told him how again how sorry I was and sorry for all my mistakes and that he is a wonderful person and I still love him and he is a wonderful father. He has come along way and spending more time with us. So I am excited that we are going to counseling, I am sure it will come out in counseling. He suggested that I call around for counselors. So I did and scheduled appts. I had read the db book, on 2nd time and ex isn't a reader, so when I brought over the tapes, I gave him and went over the scheduled appts, gave him dr.s # and directions. Then I told him how I read the db book, but figured that since he was not a reader, listening to audio tapes might be easier for him. I told him how the db book really helped me and the the tapes were recommended by the author of the db book. He said okay. I am trying to give this my 100%
