Maybe I haven't reached that point yet T1000, but what I mean by thinking aloud, is that I don't dwell on it, don't keep wondering if she is doing this or that. More looking at it from a distance. Not changing my ways based on the idea something has changed. It really is hard to put into the words I want to say. Simply what I wondered for that moment is not affecting me or making me change anything, including those "I wonder" moments.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
