Don't worry T, no more expectations, just thinking aloud these days.
Correct me if I'm wrong but thinking like this becomes the same thing.
It took me a while but after some 'guiding' from labug my thinking changed from 'I wonder why W is sending this, doing this, thinking, up to...' to 'Oh I've got an email from W, she wants an answer to this question, here's the answer, get on with own life'
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14