That wasn't right of your H to bribe your son to meet her son, especially after the separation agreement. I remember the first time my H had an affair, he took my son out with him and the OW despite me saying that I don't want him anywhere near her!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!