well, don't know what to make of this one, but the tapes that I gave him, with a piece of paper with our appts. on it well, when I went to pick up daughter Sat morning I found them, under the computer desk. I know I shouldnt snoop by while walking by his car, no tape in cassette player or tapes in the car that I could see. WE did however, have a nice time at our daughter's competetion on Sunday, he took his digital camera and kept leaning next to me showing me what he was taking. My family came to the competition as well and when it was over, my family joined us and of course, everyone hugged and kissed ex, like when we all were a family, his family treats me like I have a disease--I know add it to the issues I need to work on. They used to treat me like an outsider when I was married to their son, so why treat me any different now.