People here keep telling me this, and hopefully, it will FINALLY catch on with me...but you only have control over YOU!
You don't have a choice in what your spouse does. You just don't. It sux....horribly...and it is NOT fair. But it's reality.
So, you have control over YOU. How you will react to your spouse and his MLC stupidity...how you will grow and change and become a better you?
MLC stuff is a nightmare...but YOU will be ok! YOU can be strong and courageous. YOU will come out of this a better, stronger person. Believe it! I believe in you!
