Well, H finally had his "man-to-man" with S13. He seems to have taken it fairly well, probably because he already knew the answers to most of his questions. He told me his dad didn't or wouldn't (not sure which) tell him how long they'd been dating - guilt??? He also said H was telling him he should meet OW's S16 as he's got GTA and S13 might like to play it. I have told S13 that he shouldn't use that as an excuse. If he wants to meet them that it's his decision and neither his dad or I should have any influence on his decision. I've also told him that if he wants to talk or ask any questions then he is to feel free to do so. If I don't what he wants to know I will tell him and he can then decide if he wants to ask his dad.
I managed to get the Christmas shopping started. Have to do it a little bit at a time - I'm setting aside a little bit of money from each paycheque for the next month or so to cover it. The day ended up going pretty quickly, despite being in the mall on a weekend - ugh and having to deal with the crazy drivers as well. It was strange not having H and S13 around all day, but I guess I have to get used to that as H has said he wants to spend more alone time with our son. H did text me several times during the day to update on what they were doing which was nice of him.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
and having to deal with the crazy drivers as well. It was strange not having H and S13 around all day, but I guess I have to get used to that as H has said he wants to spend more alone time with our son. H did text me several times during the day to update on what they were doing which was nice of him.
